Entering high school. What an incredibly nerve-wrecking journey to set sail on! Out of my entire grade nine experience, the one thing that I vividly remember is the grade nine orientation day.
Green and yellow striped school banners were hung across gym walls to boost school spirit. I could feel my heart pounding as I stood in the school hallways, along with approximately 200 more students, waiting for the teachers to let us into the gym for the orientation. Sweat trickled down my forehead as I awkwardly stood in the halls, searching for familiar faces from elementary school. When I could not find anyone, I started smiling at all the students near me in hopes of starting a conversation with someone.
After that, throughout the school year, everytime I walked in the hallways, I became self-conscious. As if everyone was gazing at me. At that time I failed to recognize that no one actually was. They were just as self-absorbed in their own thoughts as I was. I wish I would have known this before.
Actually, I did know this. In fact, everyone who knew I was going to high school had told me this before. But it was me who did not understand that they were right.
There were a lot of things that I was not aware of going into grade nine. Like how to effectively manage my time, recognize the importance of a support group and trustworthy friends, and even how to structure a professional email. That is why I want to help you because I could not help myself.
If you think you are the only one who feels scared or uncomfortable to join school clubs, you are wrong. Everyone is scared to try something new. I remember when I (finally) gathered the courage to join my school’s Eco Club this year (10th grade) and my club members were all as nervous as me. They would never unmute themselves or turn on their cameras. So if you feel petrified to join a club or unmute yourself in a club meeting, always remember that you are not the only one who feels that way.
Communication is an essential life skill that benefits all. But COVID-19 limits our ability to communicate with friends and people we have never met before. School clubs give you an opportunity to communicate with people with the same interests. Not only do your communication skills strengthen, but you also have the privilege to go on school field trips with your friends.
In the future when you apply for a job, the employer would look at the amount of extra curricular activities you took part in high school. The more clubs you participate in (as long as your grades are consistent), the better because it shows you are hardworking and have strong work ethics. But make sure to not pressure yourself to commit to many activities. Do not feel the need to be always engaged in extra-curriculars if it makes you uncomfortable or if it is impacting your grades. Employers can also evaluate how effective your work ethics are by analyzing the extra curricular activities you participated in.
Procrastination may not seem like a serious issue at first. When you procrastinate, you leave work to be completed at the last minute.
Gradually, when procrastination becomes a habit, completing simple tasks such as brushing or showering can seem like extreme challenges. You hesitate when someone asks you to do something and make excuses to avoid doing work.
During my Orientation, I was walking through that hallway full of hormonal teenagers, as my heart was pounding in my chest. I remembered to draw a smile on my face because someone had told me to smile through the pain. So if you ever feel anxious about anything, remember that I was constantly smiling at strangers for 30 minutes.